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Is your teen overwhelmed, on edge, or just not quite themselves lately?

You’re not alone — anxiety in teens is incredibly common, and it doesn’t always show up the way you’d expect. Maybe they’re snapping more than usual. Avoiding school. Overthinking every social interaction. Or maybe they just keep saying, “I don’t know why I feel like this.”

At Coastal Therapy and Wellness, we offer therapy for anxious teens in Seal Beach, with virtual sessions available throughout California. We also have an office in Manhattan Beach for families in the South Bay — but this post focuses on what therapy looks like for teens right here in Seal Beach.

Our therapists specialize in supporting teens with anxiety, using approaches like CBT, mindfulness, art therapy, and a lot of patience.

We don’t just patch things up — we work with both the symptoms and the root causes so your teen can get back to feeling like themselves again: confident, calm, and connected.

If you’re starting to worry about your teen, you don’t have to figure it out alone — we’re here to help. Reach out to Coastal Therapy & Wellness.

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Why Are So Many Teens Anxious These Days?

(and why tools alone aren’t always enough)

Teenagers today are dealing with a different kind of pressure cooker than many of us grew up with.

Sure, adolescence has always been intense—but throw in social media comparisons, sky-high academic expectations, global crises showing up on their feed 24/7, and even the occasional lockdown drill, and you’ve got a whole new level of emotional overload.

At Coastal Therapy and Wellness, we believe in giving teens tools to manage anxiety and helping them understand what’s underneath it. Because anxiety isn’t just about “learning to calm down”—it’s often a signal that something deeper needs attention.

Sometimes it’s pressure to perform.
Sometimes it’s people-pleasing, perfectionism, or fear of failure.
And sometimes, it’s trauma—even when that word feels too big or heavy to say out loud.

We don’t believe in just patching things up to get your teen back to functioning. Because when you don’t address the root cause, anxiety often just shifts into a new disguise: stomachaches, social fear, academic burnout, or total emotional shutdown.

In our work with teens, we aim to:

• Give them practical tools to feel better fast
• Understand the “why” behind their anxiety
• Build emotional resilience and long-term change

It’s not just symptom relief—it’s deeper healing that lasts.

Understanding Teen Anxiety

Teenagers don’t always come out and say, “I’m anxious.” (Wouldn’t that be nice?) Instead, anxiety often shows up in ways that are easy to miss—or easy to chalk up to “just being a teen.”

Common signs of anxiety in teens include:

• Withdrawing from friends or family
• Trouble sleeping or eating
• Excessive worry about grades, social situations, or the future
• Irritability or restlessness
• Physical symptoms like stomachaches, headaches, or fatigue
• Avoiding school or certain activities

Anxiety in teens is more common than many realize. According to the Anxiety & Depression Association of America, about 1 in 3 adolescents struggles with anxiety. That’s a big number.

On top of that, teens today face a lot: social media pressure, school lockdown drills, pandemic disruptions, and nonstop academic stress. It’s no wonder many of them feel overwhelmed.

While some anxiety is a normal part of growing up, it becomes a concern when it starts interfering with school, friendships, or your teen’s sense of self.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and it might be time to reach out. Our teen therapy services in Seal Beach are designed to support teens through this tough stage of life, helping them build confidence, learn tools to manage anxiety, and feel more like themselves again.

If these signs sound familiar, it might be time to connect with someone who can help. Schedule a consult with a Seal Beach teen therapist today.

What Teen Anxiety Feels Like (Even If They Can’t Name It)

Teen anxiety doesn’t always look like panic attacks or constant worry.

And most teens don’t say, “I’m anxious.”
Instead, they’ll say things like:

• “I just feel off.”
• “I don’t know, I’m tired all the time.”
• “I hate school. Everyone’s annoying.”

Or they’ll snap at the blink of an eye… a little more often than puberty alone can explain.

Sometimes, they don’t have the words—because even to them, it doesn’t feel like anxiety. It feels like:

• 💓 Heart racing out of nowhere
• 😖 A tight lump in their throat
• 😠 Snapping at everyone
• 😶 Shutting down
• 😩 Constant pressure to do better, look better, be better

They may seem “lazy,” “moody,” or “on edge,” but underneath that?
They’re likely exhausted from carrying invisible stress they don’t understand—and often blame themselves for.

Helping teens recognize what anxiety feels like is the first step toward giving them back a sense of control. And that’s what therapy helps with—understanding what exactly is going on, and teaching them how to deal with it without shame.

“I used to feel so helpless watching my daughter spiral. Therapy at Coastal gave her the tools to cope — and gave me hope again as a parent.”
— Parent of a 15-year-old client

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Therapy for Anxious Teens in Seal Beach: How It Works

So what can therapy actually do for a teen with anxiety? (Spoiler: we don’t just talk about feelings for 45 minutes and send them home.)

At Coastal Therapy and Wellness in Seal Beach, therapy is:

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Collaborative:
We meet teens where they are. Therapy isn’t forced—it’s a space for them to feel safe, seen, and supported.

🧰 Tool-Based:
Teens learn real-world coping strategies like grounding techniques, thought reframing, and ways to challenge anxious thinking. These tools often help teens not only feel better now but also become better equipped for future challenges. Think of it as emotional driver’s ed—but without the parallel parking.

💬 Emotionally Supportive:
We help teens name what’s going on internally so they don’t feel like they’re just “crazy” or “too sensitive.”

🧠 Behaviorally-Oriented:
When appropriate, we use evidence-based approaches like CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) or DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) to help rewire anxious responses.

🎨 Creative and Flexible:
Some of our therapists incorporate art therapy, mindfulness, EMDR, or movement into sessions—depending on what best supports your teen.

We also support parents in understanding how to help their teen without accidentally reinforcing anxious patterns. Therapy isn’t just for the teen—it’s for the whole system that surrounds them.

Wondering what kind of therapy might fit your teen best? We’ll guide you every step of the way — just reach out.

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5 Myths About Teen Anxiety (That Might Be Getting in the Way)

Let’s bust some myths that we hear all the time—from loving parents, overwhelmed teens, and even the occasional well-meaning gym teacher.

1. “They’re just being dramatic.”

Nope. Teens don’t fake anxiety for fun. If anything, they’re hiding it.

2. “They’re doing fine in school—so it can’t be that bad.”

High-functioning anxiety is a thing. A+ grades and perfect attendance can happen alongside crippling internal stress.

3. “They just want attention.”

Spoiler: they actually want relief. And often, they don’t know how to ask for it.

4. “If they don’t want to talk to me, they definitely won’t talk to a therapist.”

Teens are more likely to open up to someone neutral. Bonus: we don’t assign chores or control their phone privileges (but we definitely work with them in understanding that those boundaries may be the right choice for them!)

5. “Therapy is for when things get really bad.”

Starting therapy before a full-on crash? That’s not overreacting—it’s smart prevention.

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How to Find the Right Therapist for Anxious Teens in Seal Beach

Finding a therapist your teen actually connects with can feel overwhelming—especially when you’re already worried.

Here’s what to look for in a teen therapist:

✅ Experience with Teens – Teens aren’t mini adults. They need someone who knows how to talk to them without talking down to them.
✅ Specialized Training – Look for therapists who specialize in anxiety, adolescent development, CBT, DBT, or art therapy.
✅ Relational Fit – Teens are more likely to engage if they feel understood and not judged. If the therapist reminds them of their least favorite teacher, it’s a no-go.
✅ Parent Collaboration – A therapist who keeps parents appropriately involved—without making the teen feel like therapy is just another report card.

At Coastal Therapy and Wellness, our Seal Beach team includes therapists who get teens—and actually enjoy working with them. We offer free consult calls to help families find the right fit.

Not sure where to start? That’s okay — we’ll help you figure it out. Contact us today for a free consult.

Self-Care Tips (That Actually Help) for Teens and Parents

Let’s be honest: “self-care” gets tossed around a lot. But when your teen is anxious, you want real things that help—not fluffy Pinterest advice.

Here’s how both you and your teen can find some breathing room:

For Teens:

• Micro Moments of Calm
  One deep breath. Five jumping jacks. 10 minutes off TikTok. Small wins count.
• Movement > Motivation
  We don’t wait to feel motivated—we move first. A quick walk or stretch changes your brain chemistry.
• The Worry Journal
  Get the spirals out of their head and onto paper. We promise, it helps.
• Screen Hygiene (Without Shame)
  Less scrolling = less spiraling. Especially before bed. Even teens who fight it admit it makes a difference.

For Parents:

• Validate First, Fix Later
  “That sounds really hard” goes further than “Here’s what you should do.”
• Regulate Yourself
  Your calm nervous system helps co-regulate theirs—even if they roll their eyes.
• Show Up, Even When It’s Quiet
  Your presence matters. Even if they don’t say much, they notice when you stay near.
• Model Boundaries + Breaks
  Normalize saying no, taking pauses, and not doing it all.
• Be Gentle — But Don’t Let Avoidance Take Over
  It’s tempting to let your teen skip school or avoid hard things to keep the peace (and honestly, avoid the morning meltdown). But avoidance often makes anxiety stronger. Work with them on small, doable ways to get through the day or at least a step closer to it—not around it.

Small shifts, done consistently, can change your teen’s emotional baseline—and yours too.

Therapy Options for Anxious Teens in Seal Beach — In Person & Online

Whether your teen ends up seeing us in person or online, it matters that they’re talking to someone who gets the local vibe.

We’re based in and around Seal Beach and work with teens across:

• Los Alamitos High School
• Oak Middle School
• McAuliffe Middle School
• Marina High School
• And more across the Seal Beach/Orange County area

Even if your teen sees us virtually (which many prefer for flexibility and comfort), they’ll still be paired with a therapist who knows the local school systems, social culture, and community pressures.

That means we can help not just with internal stress—but also with real-world challenges your teen faces in this specific environment.

At Coastal Therapy and Wellness, we understand the culture, pressure, and pace of life in Seal Beach. From Los Al High to nearby middle schools, we know the academic and social expectations your teen might be facing — and how those pressures can affect mental health.

(P.S. We also serve Manhattan Beach families — but if you’re in Seal Beach, this guide is especially for you.)

You’re Not Alone: Therapy as Connection

Therapy isn’t just about managing symptoms—it’s about helping teens build stronger relationships with themselves and with others. It’s about reminding them they don’t have to figure everything out alone (even if they act like they want to).

In Orange County, our Seal Beach therapists offer expert care for everything from trauma to depression. Whether your teen is struggling with anxiety, identity, school stress, or relationships—we’re here to help them build resilience and confidence.

And if you’re located elsewhere? We also support teens and families virtually throughout California—because your zip code shouldn’t limit your access to care.

Sometimes, just having someone to talk to makes all the difference. Let’s help your teen feel supported. Get in touch with our team today!

Client Success Story: From Panic to Leadership

One of our teen clients came to us after nearly failing a grade due to school avoidance. Her anxiety had gotten so intense, even walking into the school building felt impossible.

We worked closely with her—and her school team—to build a transition plan. It included:

• Exposure-based therapy
• Coping skills tailored to her unique stressors
• Ongoing collaboration with teachers and staff

It wasn’t overnight. But slowly, she started attending again. Then regularly.
Fast-forward to today?

She’s now in high school, thriving in ASB, involved in clubs, and surrounded by a healthy new friend group. She no longer experiences physical symptoms of anxiety, and when occasional stress bubbles up, she knows how to catch it early and use her tools to navigate it.

That’s the power of the right kind of support.

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Ready to Take the Next Step?

Whether your teen is crying in their room, lashing out, or quietly holding it all in, therapy can help. And we’re ready to meet them where they’re at.

At Coastal Therapy and Wellness, we specialize in therapy for anxious teens in Seal Beach — with virtual options across California and an additional office in Manhattan Beach for those who live in the South Bay.

Finding the right therapist for your teen can make all the difference. Our compassionate and experienced team of therapists includes clinicians who specialize in working with teens and understand the unique challenges they face today.

Want to explore if teen therapy is the right step for your family? Reach out to us today—we’d love to help.